FIGHT FOR ME DAMMIT!

        





         

When will all you wonderful men realize that we women want you to fight for our love? I don't mean literal physical dueling like the days of old. I'm speaking in terms of an emotional commitment and a matter of fact stance on our hearts and bodies. Let's face it, we can say we're strong and super independent but every woman, well most women, want a man to step up and claim her as his own. The natural order of life deems the man the head of the household. If this is true isn't the same apparent for the context of the intimate relationship? Lots of us are tired of doing everything alone and welcome a strong hand to pitch in and say "I got it baby, go sit down". Normally I would write this and plug in some things we women should do for the man to make him want to give us our all. However, today I'm only talking about women who are already grown, doing their damn thing and don't NEED a man but WANT a man. If you missed my explanation of the difference feel free to catch up on this link http://charm4sure.blogspot.com/2013/07/the-need-vs-want.html .

Yes men! The ladies you see paying their own bills do desire your presence in their lives. It's just that we may require a little more attention or effort to gain our trust. We have been handling things alone for so long that authentic interest from a good man is welcomed yet sometimes unbelievable. Stay consistent and attentive to our needs! Communicate your feelings! This is the Fight I'm referring to! Just stay with us while we run that background and if it all checks out we'll ride with you until the wheels fall off. Make sense now?

Ahhhh yes guys we are capable of handling our business AND offering complete packages that allow you to be in control. We just want you to bring something to the table to upgrade our gold level to the platinum level. Don't you want someone to truly be a partner in life instead of a dependent? Don't you want to be able to trust that she can manage the ins and outs of the household affairs and look fabulous doing so? Unfortunately, most of you are stuck dealing with women who either can't breathe without you telling them to, or have never even worked full time and know nothing about stretching a dollar. Listen to me, this will get boring after while and you'll be looking for one of us to stimulate your senses.

All I'm saying today is open your eyes and see the capability of the woman who is a total package. It's not our fault you fell for superficial the first time around so get your mind right and focus on the present. Fight for that good woman to stay by your side because the freak train is not coming! Ladies don't give him too long to figure it out because there are men out there who want to love you, spoil you, have you be their everything, and will claim you with pride for the world to see. It will definitely be his loss.

Just my thought. Thanks for reading!