In my opinion the rock hard abs and thighs rippling with muscles are nice for a calendar pin up. However, within my reality I don't truly identify these buff bodies as the epitome of a sexy man. Despite all the superficial crap we're taunted with in today's world we must remember that everyone has something great to offer in a relationship in addition to their looks and body shape. The most sexy attributes of a man are the simple things. The outline of his lips as he sleeps. His one arm raised above his head as he sits back in his chair. The intense look on his face as he watches the game. His laugh. Or more simply, the glimmer in his eye he doesn't want you to notice when he first sees you after being apart.
The laws of attraction vary from one human being to another, but what's universal is the need for more than physical stimulation for a fulfilling relationship. That being said, sexy is also portrayed in a man's actions and his method of communication. If he calls to simply say hello and check on how your day is progressing, that's sexy. Him folding his laundry and ironing his clothes is sexy on a level of independence and self value. When he plans an outing for the two of you on his own to make you happy, that's super sexy.
Whether we're talking sexy in his actions or sexy in his appearance it's the little simplistic details that will have him remain appealing to you in the long run. Let's face it, the hunky man who lets the door slam in your face is far less appealing than the average guy who holds the door open for you with a smile. Ladies you'd be surprised what it is about you that men find sexy. Almost 100% of men I've conversed with about this subject never mention boobs or ass as the sexiest thing about women. Be bold and ask a few what's your sexiest attribute. I'm told by the majority that my lips happen to be mine. Could it be men aren't as superficial as we think? That's an entire chapter on its own.
What do I find most sexy about a man? My simple answer is his back. A man's back shows strength that runs from shoulder to shoulder. His back supports his outstretched arms that embrace her tightly, and carry her heavy load when she's tired. From the curve of his spine where he pushes through pain to work hard so she's content from financial worries. The space between his shoulder blades where she can rest her head when she snuggles up behind him. Yes, I'd have to say a man's back is the sexiest part of his body.
Just my opinion. Thanks for reading!
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