TODAY'S THOUGHT...No pain no gain??

LOVE UNTIL IT HURTS...OUCH! I know this is a cliche that some people use but do you really want love until it brings you some sort of pain? The pain can be physical like getting your ass beat. It can be emotional pain that causes you to be physically ill from stress and anxiety. Sometimes the nature of the situation can also cause pain. Are you involved with something that continues to stifle you or something you know is forbidden? Why is your "LOVE" diminishing your ability to function in a healthy manner? The good stuff should be freeing and refreshing to your psyche. It should make you feel both supported and regenerated. It should not be exhausting and feel burdensome. The next time you hear someone say "love so good it hurts" just think about the point I'm trying to relay. The thought of your lover should bring a smile and not a scowl. I don't know about you but I don't want to feel hurt from the person I'm loving. I want to to love until I'm hysterical from joyous laughter! Just today's thought.