MULTIPLES

Get your mind out the gutter! I'm speaking of multiple loves. Can a woman love two men at the same time? I know we say a man can't truly handle more than one woman but is the same true for us women? Let's think about this thing. Forget emotions for a minute and let's just examine the physical advantage a woman has to juggle two men. First of all the average man's sexual comeback is on a time delay. He cannot make love to one woman extensively and then turn around and go service a second without a few hours in between. And if he can do that he's actually quite the anomaly (later subject matter for further discussion). To continue to do this on a regular basis however, would leave him worn out, mess up his back, and confuse his mind.

A woman on the other hand can make love to a man, jump up and down, stand on her head and then Swish & Flow! Yep I'm tellin' it...Swish the cooch and Flow on to the next! I didn't say it was right but it's highly more probable for a woman to leave one man and go on to the next faster than a man can do the same.

Let's talk finances. The average working class man cannot actually afford to maintain two real women. Between helping her out with bills, dating expenses, holidays, birthday, and a few extras on top of maintaining his own living expenses it would be damn near impossible for him to juggle the needs of two women. Please don't think I'm talking about jump offs who only see the man when he's feeling some type of way and don't demand any maintenance. Sometimes that's cool but I'm talking about the women who require quality. If this isn't you keep reading my blogs and I assure you will acquire the taste for quality male interaction. This love of multiples is for the people who are truly involved and established with two men and spend time split between them who are torn by true intimate feelings for both.  

The mention of intimacy brings us to that other key thing, emotion. H-Town said it best "Emotions make you cry sometimes. Make you fall in love". If you have two great men that are meeting your needs on different levels what do you do? Do you hold a contest to see whose better?  They're both bringing something wonderful into your existence. Both are complimentary to your personality and make you happy. I really don't have the answer for this dilemma. All I know is most people, especially men, cannot accept the fact that someone they love shares themselves with another human being. A man can't even fathom their woman being touched by another man, even when he himself may be engaged in something outside of the relationship.

I just wanted to shed light on this issue because it's real and I hear a lot of women experiencing it lately. There are so many good specimens of man out there and it can be hard to choose just one to ride it out with forever. If you love two men I know you don't want to betray either of them. While it may be physically easier for women to do the juggling it is not just as easy emotionally. Each case will be different and should be dealt with accordingly. I'm not here to tell you what to do or judge your choices. Just keep in mind there's probably some underlying issue that's keeping you from being completely with one man versus the other. If you're splitting yourself sit and really think about why you haven't settled with either. Put your self value on the table while you ponder that issue and I'm sure you'll find the answer. Let me know if you need help sorting it all out.

'Til next time Swish & Flow!  Thanks for reading.