Today's Thought..Be the sand!



BE THE SAND BABY!

You ever hear that expression “Don’t bring sand to the beach”? Well I’m here to tell you that my goal is to be a damn good bag of sand and I vow to never get left behind. You guys know I hold to the mantra that good life is balanced life and I believe in his, hers, and ours. I’m just saying when it comes to “HIS/HER TIME” you should make it very hard for your partner to want to leave you behind.

Now I’m not speaking of being a pain in the ass nag, but more so being a person that your partner generally enjoys being with outside of the four walls of the house. Learn how to let your hair down and let loose with the one you love. Sometimes we get so caught up in a role of “wife” or “husband” that we forget to be a friend and companion. Do something unexpected the next time your significant offers to take you out on the town. If the venue calls for an evening gown you wear the hell out of that gown and go to Macy’s and get that smoky eye professionally done. If titties are called for then pull out those girls and spritz ‘em with some fragrance other than Jean Nate. Pull out the shoulders or a deep plunging back with that cute pair of jeans. These are the times when being extra can’t hurt.

All I’m saying is stay in the mindset of being beautiful, fabulous sand and you won’t have to worry about bitches, you’ll let bitches worry about you. Wouldn’t you rather put your toes in the pretty finely grained sand, rather than that hard crunchy shit at Lighthouse Beach? Believe me! Your man, unless he’s just a pig, will think twice about putting someone in your place no matter where he goes.

Just think about it.

 

Thanks for reading!