HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY
LOVE THYSELF!
The Valentine’s Day hoopla turns some of us into hopeless
romantics, while others stew in their self-made single life misery. The most
important mantra you can adapt is love thyself first and know that being single
is not the worst thing you could be in life. Who better to appreciate the love
you give and are capable of than YOU? So if you don’t find yourself as half of a
“couple” this Valentine’s Day, make absolutely sure you take this time to do something
to pamper yourself.
I recently gave a woman advice that I should apply to my own
life, and is actually something for everyone to try for a little mental clarity. I suggested that at least once per month she engage in a simple
affordable activity that would be specific to one of her needs and that only
she could enjoy selfishly. For example, a simple hair wash and condition at a
salon, a basic manicure, a mall chair massage, or even a new pair of underwear.
The pampering of oneself should not be a practice that puts you in debt. If you
notice all the things I’ve suggested are not expensive, but more specifically
don’t allow you to feel the guilt of having to share with anyone. There’s nothing
wrong with a little Me-Love and Self-Preservation. If you get right within
yourself maybe it will put you in a better head space to attract a romantic
interest if that’s what you desire. And if not OH WELL! You’ll feel great about
yourself and begin to know what makes you tick. LOVE THYSELF FIRST!
Thanks for Reading!

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