Is there a perfect time frame that must pass to feel love for someone? Is there a rule that says when it's okay to feel that way? People say "it was love at first sight" and get married in less than twelve months into a partnership that is meant to last their lifetime. Does it not take time to gather information about someone and learn what they stand for and then make the determination of what you feel for them? As human beings we have the ability to filter out feelings and interpret words but those same flawed humanistic qualities can lead us into premature trust. And sometimes something much worse like being in a home with someone but still feeling alone.
Playing devil's advocate I pose these questions. Are the people who make their decision about who they will spend the rest of their life with in a matter of months onto something the rest of us are missing? Don't we say life is short so what are the reservations about taking chances with "love"? The scary thing is there's no perfect scenario and no perfect answer. F@*k It!
Just today's thought
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