Are you contemplating whether to buy your new friend a
Christmas gift? It’s okay to gift to a person who you’re connecting with on an
emotional or intimate level.
Small tokens are expressions of thoughtfulness for some
people. For the record I am one of those people. If you’re in the store and you
see something the person you share most of your time with may enjoy you should feel
free to get it for them. No doubt people like to be told how you feel about
them but sometimes actions speak louder than words. The gesture of surprising someone
with a “just because” says I think of you often and I care about your needs. The
level of your giving is a personal one depending on your financial status and
the reciprocal feelings within the walls of the relationship.
On another level if you’re dealing with someone who really
hasn’t shown a great interest in you or what your life is like outside of the
time you spend together (booty calls-bed buddies-get right partners) then save
your money and invest in yourself. If you’re in the predicament of having already
given to someone and they’ve yet to show any type of appreciation, or they make
that WTF face and offer a strained “thank you”, let that be the last gift you
give to that individual. Don’t be an idiot! We all know when someone is not
really interested in us so don’t waste your effort trying to buy their time. Use
your best judgment on the subject matter of spending money on folks. If you’re just
confused and not too sure where you stand contact me with some details and I’ll
help you figure it out.
Overall, it’s my opinion if you’re digging someone and
there’s no doubt whether they’re feeling the same way go ahead and get them a
Christmas gift. If they’re who you think they are I’m sure they’re getting you
one too.
DISCLAIMER: Small
Tokens are very thoughtful and sweet and Big Expensive Tokens will guarantee a
great show of appreciation…I’m just sayin!
Have a great one!
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