"HELLO, NICE TO SEE YOU AGAIN. OH THIS IS DAVE MY......UHHH....HMMM...."
HAVE YOU EVER BEEN OUT WITH SOMEONE AND YOU COME ACROSS A TIME WHERE YOU MUST INTRODUCE THEM AND YOU STUMBLE UPON THEIR TITLE?
WHEN DOES A RELATIONSHIP CROSS THE LINE OF UNDERSTANDING THAT YOU BOTH WANT IT TO BE JUST THE TWO OF YOU? WHEN DOES THE RULE OF FORSAKING ALL OTHERS ACTUALLY KICK IN?
IS IT WHEN YOU REALIZE A PERSON FULFILLS ALL YOUR NEEDS AND YOU DON'T WANT ANYONE ELSE TO SHARE IN HOW THEY MAKE YOU FEEL? OR IS IT WHEN YOU FIND YOURSELF CONCERNED ABOUT THEIR WELL BEING WHEN THEY'RE NOT AROUND? (AND NO...THOUGHTS OF SEX WITH THEM ARE NOT THE SAME THING!) I MEAN WHEN YOU'RE TRULY INTO THEM TO THE POINT WHERE YOU WANT TO INVEST IN THEM FINANCIALLY FOR EITHER THEIR NECESSITIES OR LITTLE EXTRAS JUST BECAUSE! THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE YOU WAIT TO DO THINGS WITH BECAUSE YOU DON'T WANT TO EXPERIENCE IT WITHOUT THEM. THE PERSON YOU CAN HAVE IN YOUR PRESENCE AND SILENCE BETWEEN YOU IS REALLY OKAY.
IT SEEMS WE GO TO THAT NEXT LEVEL WHEN SOME FORM OF TRUST KICKS IN. EVERYONE HAS DIFFERENT IDEALS ON WHAT COMMITMENT IS OR HOW IT SHOULD MANIFEST ITSELF. WHEN TWO PEOPLE ARE ON THE SAME PAGE WORKING TOWARD THE SAME OUTCOME IT'S A GOOD THING. I'M NOT SAYING GET CAUGHT UP ON TITLES WITHIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP BUT IF YOU HAVE SOMEONE WHO MAKES YOU FEEL FOR LACK OF A BETTER TERM "SOME TYPE OF WAY" SPEAK UP AND TELL THEM HOW YOU FEEL.
IF YOU CONTINUE TO BUILD YOUR RELATIONSHIP ON MUTUAL RESPECT I GUARANTEE IT WILL GROW INTO SOMETHING FABULOUS. JUST TODAY'S THOUGHT....ENJOY!
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