One on One

Hey Ladies, Queens and Divas! I started this blog to give you all an outlet to read about the crazy stuff that happens in the real word of dating and relationships. Basically so you’ll know you’re not alone and yes that shit that happened to you has also happened to someone else. And if it hasn’t yet then it probably will and you’ll see how either my friends or I handled certain situations and you’ll have a sort of template to follow. For you all in some type of committed relationship you’ll see pointers from my perspective on how to keep your relationship fresh and how to keep from being homicidal and stay focused when your man crosses that point of no return. So who am I you ask and what do I know about it? I’m newly single and on the dating scene since separating from my husband in the traditional black folk manner, meaning I just packed all my shit and my kids and left! When my marriage was great it was so because I made it so, and when I realized I was the only one worried about it I dropped the ball because my arm got tired. I’m also the friend who will give it to you straight or not give it to you at all. Most of the time I’m the voice of realistic consequences to any crazy actions you’re mulling over in your head. Oh yeah, and I have this degree in Psychology. That being said, my series of blogs will show you that I am very candid but never intentionally hurtful while giving insight on a number of topics. If you’re overly sensitive or fear the word ‘penis’ or ‘bitch’ you may not wish to partake of my blogspot and that is your prerogative. However, if you’re brave enough to feed your guilty pleasures on things you think but would never say about men, sex, and life in general, while laughing and cutting up, then I welcome you to become an avid reader of my twisted but highly rational views.

I look forward to having fun with this blog thing and hope you all enjoy! If you have topic ideas you’d like me to discuss or questions you can hit me at partywithscarlet@gmail.com .