Are you girlfriend material?

Sometimes we get into situations with men and over exaggerate to our friends, and even sadder mislead our own selves, that we have entered into an emotionally reciprocal arrangement. Unfortunately, thanks to the growing number of women who demand minimal yet provide the optimal experience to men, the requirements to win the game continue to decline to a low standardized place.

Please ladies, if very simple things are not occurring in your relationship YOU ARE NOT HIS GIRLFRIEND! I can hear you saying "Like what Miss Scarlet?" Well beautiful, here are some tell tale signs you are not his woman in his head. 

1. You've never met his family. (His crew on the street don't count....sorry)

2. He has never, ever taken you out to any public places. (A man whose fond of you is proud of you)

3. He's never spent any money on you. (Not superficial, FACT! Even a financially challenged man makes a way if he's interested)

4. He's never shared any of his business with you. (Banking, Family History, etc)

5. You don't know where he is most of the time. (NUFF SAID)

6. You don't know his dreams and life goals (You should be the first person he shares them with)

7. You share no quiet time. (If you can't spend time without sex involved he's definitely not your man)

I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news but it's some tough reality. So what do you do? First figure out if you're okay with this role....if you really like this guy and you say "I don't care", you're lying to yourself. Save all that time and attention for a man who wants it and is smart enough to realize you have lots to offer. If he's a good man he will know your worth and work to build that pedestal to place you upon. However, if you allow yourself to be put inside that after nine box you've already lost with this man. You can never recreate a first impression so be smart and tactful from the beginning. You can't go from jump off to wifey. Sorry. Time to shake him off and raise your standards! 

Thanks for reading.

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