TODAY'S THOUGHT...Take Heed

Did you ever think you truly knew the person with whom you entered into a romantic arrangement, only to be shocked by some small flash of less than desirable behavior? In an instant something clicks in your mind and you realize the set-up may not quite be what you thought it was and is not where you need to focus your attention. Little sparks of intolerable quirks may grow into something huge and before you know it you're attached to a maniac.

The moment you come to the realization that some actions by your partner are less than desirable make a mental note and take heed if they continue. HEED MEANING  TAKE IT SERIOUSLY! The next step is to bring the issue to their attention. Too many times we just quit on people and forget that imperfections lie in each one of us. However, if they're in total denial of any character flaws and refuse to listen, then you got a big problem on your hands. A person will never take steps to repair what they don't see as broken. And finally, the dread of letting them go for the sake of your own mental health. Yes, yes sometimes you have to say goodbye in order to maintain self respect. And yes this may take you out of the romantic arrangement, however being alone for a while doesn't mean you'll be lonely. It's more like you choosing yourself and understanding the full value of your time and attention. One day someone will pay you your worth with complete love.

All I'm saying this morning is be true to yourself and everything else will fall in line, I promise!

Thanks for reading.

HE MIGHT BE A TAD BIT GHETTO IF...

LADIES!! There's nothing wrong with a touch of ghetto shit every now and then, but if he's got more than two or three checks on this list you might be in denial of your desire for the hood lovin'...I'm just sayin'.



HE MIGHT BE A TAD BIT GHETTO IF...He has a 60" flat screen television that sits on top of an end table.

HE MIGHT BE A TAD BIT GHETTO IF...He parks across two spaces to run into the package store.

HE MIGHT BE A TAD BIT GHETTO IF...He greets his friends with strange sounds and a secret handshake.

HE MIGHT BE A TAD BIT GHETTO IF...He gets out the car, looks back and asks you if you're coming.

HE MIGHT BE A TAD BIT GHETTO IF...He's never been out of the state where he lives.

HE MIGHT BE A TAD BIT GHETTO IF...He only has liquor and a carton of eggs in his refrigerator.

HE MIGHT BE A TAD BIT GHETTO IF...He doesn't own any shoes without laces.

HE MIGHT BE A TAD BIT GHETTO IF...He has little baggies filled with things called Kush, Skunk, el Niño, and Sweet Dreams.

HE MIGHT BE A TAD BIT GHETTO IF...You can hear him on your street before he reaches your house.

HE MIGHT BE A TAD BIT GHETTO IF...He calls his mother by her first name.

HE MIGHT BE A TAD BIT GHETTO IF...He has a sister with an accent or hyphen in her name.

HE MIGHT BE A TAD BIT GHETTO IF...He parks his car around the corner from his house.

HE MIGHT BE A TAD BIT GHETTO IF...He has more than two chicks names tattooed on his body.

HE MIGHT BE A TAD BIT GHETTO IF...He has more than three camouflage items in his closet.

HE MIGHT BE A TAD BIT GHETTO IF...He has different names in different circles.

HE MIGHT BE A TAD BIT GHETTO IF...He throws a washcloth on you after sex.  

Get your ghetto love on! Thanks for reading.