Hey Ladies, Queens and Divas! I started this blog to give
you all an outlet to read about the crazy stuff that happens in the real word of
dating and relationships. Basically so you’ll know you’re not alone and yes
that shit that happened to you has also happened to someone else. And if it
hasn’t yet then it probably will and you’ll see how either my friends or I
handled certain situations and you’ll have a sort of template to follow. For
you all in some type of committed relationship you’ll see pointers from my
perspective on how to keep your relationship fresh and how to keep from being
homicidal and stay focused when your man crosses that point of no return. So
who am I you ask and what do I know about it? I’m newly single and on the
dating scene since separating from my husband in the traditional black folk
manner, meaning I just packed all my shit and my kids and left! When my
marriage was great it was so because I made it so, and when I realized I was
the only one worried about it I dropped the ball because my arm got tired. I’m also
the friend who will give it to you straight or not give it to you at all. Most
of the time I’m the voice of realistic consequences to any crazy actions you’re
mulling over in your head. Oh yeah, and I have this degree in Psychology. That being said, my series of blogs will show you that
I am very candid but never intentionally hurtful while giving insight on a
number of topics. If you’re overly sensitive or fear the word ‘penis’ or ‘bitch’
you may not wish to partake of my blogspot and that is your prerogative. However,
if you’re brave enough to feed your guilty pleasures on things you think but
would never say about men, sex, and life in general, while laughing and cutting
up, then I welcome you to become an avid reader of my twisted but highly
rational views.
I look forward to having fun with this blog thing and hope
you all enjoy! If you have topic ideas you’d like me to discuss or questions
you can hit me at partywithscarlet@gmail.com
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