You can't jointly repair your relationship if one of you doesn't think it's broken or slightly damaged. Don't be that person whose never wrong and eyes stay closed to a crumbling foundation. You will eventually be left standing on unstable ground. When you do realize you're falling and reach out to grab hold of your partner for support you may just find they're no longer waiting for you to extend that hand.
I'd rather be with an imperfect man who wants to work through his/our issues than one who already thinks he's perfect. Beware of the "Perfect" man or woman. Someone whose perfect doesn't need your partnership.
Tuesday, April 29, 2014
Sunday, April 6, 2014
Today's Thought...Say no to repeat offenders
The moment you know you are over someone they seem to sense it and attempt to stick their foot back in the door. Stay focused and remember why your interaction stopped in the first place.
Be strong! Don't let them ease their way back into your routine. Especially at the risk of interfering with something new and fresh for you. Step outside your situation and try to view it as if it were someone else. What do you see as the potential issues? What advice would you give? Consider taking that same advice and applying it to yourself.
Life is too short to be a repeat offender of bad decisions.
Just today's thought.
Be strong! Don't let them ease their way back into your routine. Especially at the risk of interfering with something new and fresh for you. Step outside your situation and try to view it as if it were someone else. What do you see as the potential issues? What advice would you give? Consider taking that same advice and applying it to yourself.
Life is too short to be a repeat offender of bad decisions.
Just today's thought.
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